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Five Reasons You Might Be Overeating (and It Has Nothing to Do With Willpower)

It’s so easy to feel frustrated when this happens. You want to give up completely, and you simply don’t have the energy to keep going. So what causes this pattern, and how do you stop overeating?

“Overeating usually has nothing to do with willpower,” says Maja Babić, a Mayo Clinic-certified health and wellness coach, lifestyle medicine nutrition coach, and founder of MAJAMAYO. Of overeating itself, Maja explains: “It simply means eating past the point of fullness.”

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Many factors, or even a combination of them, can lead to overeating. “I think it’s important to notice when you overeat or when you reach the point of feeling uncomfortable after a meal. Also, think about and become aware of exactly what you’re eating and why you might be overdoing it, so you can see where to make small but meaningful changes.”

Although diet culture may have led you to believe you can’t succeed unless you stick to a specific way of eating, your lifestyle may be the biggest factor when it comes to overeating. In fact, depending on the day, or even the phase of your cycle, you may be hungrier than usual, and that’s completely okay. The problem starts when people feel guilty after overeating and then try to compensate by restricting, or give up on healthy eating altogether.

How to Stop Overeating (and Why We Overeat)

Here are some reasons that may contribute to your overeating, along with suggestions for what you can do, no willpower required.

Lack of sleep

You might not think so, but your sleep has a big effect on your appetite. Just one night of disrupted or insufficient sleep raises production of ghrelin, known as the hunger hormone, and lowers levels of leptin, the fullness hormone. Leptin signals to the brain when we’re full, while ghrelin stimulates appetite. Lack of sleep, even a single bad night, upsets this delicate hormonal balance.

Adults are generally advised to get seven to nine hours of sleep each night. If that’s a challenge, reviewing your sleep hygiene to see where you can improve can be very helpful. Blue light from screens affects sleep quality, even when you don’t notice it. So avoid screens for 30 to 60 minutes before bed and choose a relaxation routine instead: a bath, reading a book, time with a partner, or journaling. There are many ways to wind down and get quality sleep.

Healthy eating is great, but are you starving yourself to the point where your diet becomes too restrictive? That can have significant health implications and, most importantly, can lead to weight cycling and the yo-yo effect. In a well-known study, mentally and physically healthy men who went through a period of restrictive eating (dieting) developed an unhealthy relationship with food: they ate far more than usual and even became obsessed with food because of the psychological effects of food restriction. When we restrict certain foods too much over a short period, it can trigger intense cravings for those very foods, simply because of our biology.

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Support from a professional can truly help improve your relationship with food. It’s more useful to work on changing habits, with a way of eating you can maintain over the long term, because it’s sustainable and won’t lead to short-term weight loss at the expense of your mental health, which is what restrictive diets often push us toward.

You can also ask yourself the following questions:

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  • Do you restrict foods you love?

  • Do you focus on eating a set number of calories?

  • Do you cut out entire food groups, such as unprocessed, healthy carbohydrates, which then leaves you craving huge portions of pasta when you’re out with friends?

  • Do you skip meals?

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If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, there’s a good chance you’re restricting your diet too much. Working with a health professional, such as a health and wellness coach, can help you build a sustainable plan you can follow over time, one that delivers the results you want without going to extremes.

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Chronic stress

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Chronic stress, a difficult condition we all face, can also affect your appetite. One study found that chronic stress can increase our motivation to eat foods that act on the mesolimbic dopamine system, which is essentially our reward system. When we’re under chronic stress, our hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis is constantly activated, which leads to high cortisol (the stress hormone) and increased food cravings. That means when you’re chronically stressed, you tend to crave more processed foods or sweets, which works as a kind of coping mechanism. It’s very important to have coping mechanisms that aren’t food-related when we’re under stress, so we can reduce the guilt that usually follows overeating and, in turn, adds to our stress. To reduce stress, try a relaxation method: mindfulness meditation, a 30-minute walk in nature, listening to music, deep breathing, or simply calling a friend.

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Managing stress doesn’t have to be complicated, expensive, or a long, exhausting process. It can be simple, accessible, and practical. We just need to know we have these tools in our pocket, ready to pull out at any moment.

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Listening to your body

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Eating when we’re hungry and stopping when we’re full sounds simple enough, right? But it turns out to be more complex. Often, you may not actually be hungry. You may be thirsty, stressed, tired, or something similar. To truly know whether you’re hungry, you need to pay attention to your body’s internal signals.

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Paying attention to those signals is what lets you understand what your body is trying to tell you. To achieve this, MAJAMAYO relies on intuitive eating (IE), a nutrition framework built on respect for the whole body. IE teaches you to develop awareness of your body’s internal cues, so you can understand when to eat, how much to eat, and what to eat. Intuitive eating is a great way to connect with your hunger and fullness signals, make peace with food, and give yourself unconditional permission to eat when your body wants to. It creates a trusting, kind, respectful relationship with yourself, in which fear of food and preoccupation with your body and food decrease, because you’ve given yourself the space and kindness to make peace with food and your body. In fact, there are almost 150 studies on intuitive eating that support its impact. However, tuning in to your body’s signals after a lifetime of ignoring them can be hard, which is why it’s important to first turn to a professional who can help you understand your body and give you the tools to build a healthy relationship with food. Health and wellness coaches are one example of professionals who can work with you to build that understanding and a healthier relationship with food.

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Not eating properly after exercise

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If you don’t eat after exercising (or if you eat the wrong combination of foods, or too little), you’re not doing your body any favors, and you affect your hunger levels throughout the day. After activity, you should eat within 30 to 60 minutes of your workout, and include both carbohydrates and protein for optimal recovery. During exercise our muscles use up their glycogen, or stored glucose, which is the body’s preferred energy source, especially during high-intensity workouts. This partially depletes muscle glycogen, and the best way to restore it is to replenish it. If you don’t take in enough protein and carbohydrates after exercise, it affects not only your muscles’ ability to recover but also your hunger levels. Studies have shown that exercise can lower blood sugar, which can lead to intense hunger if you don’t refuel properly afterward. It has also been shown that the longer you delay eating when you’re hungry, the more your blood sugar drops, which can lead to cravings for sugary and refined carbohydrate foods to bring blood sugar back up. That’s why it’s essential to eat a balanced combination of protein and complex carbohydrates after exercise, to stay fuller and improve recovery.

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If you struggle with overeating, consider working with a health and wellness coach and nutrition experts at MAJAMAYO to identify the underlying cause and build a healthy relationship with food.

By


Maja Babić

Founder of the MAJAMAYO Center, www.majamayo.com
Graduate Engineer in Food Technology
Master of Science in Nutrition and Food Technology
Mayo Clinic College of Medicine and Science, Health & Wellness Coach
Harvard Medical School Executive Education, Designing a Sustainable Nutrition Plan

12.01.2024

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